Dear Chris
Thank you very much I thought that it would not be the norm especially as he was, or could have been a Regular. I am in a bit of a dilemma really as this man was 41 on his marriage in 1903, and at that age he is not mine, but it may be possible that my soldier married someone else of the same first name of Catherine, so it is back to stage 1 where 'I know nothin'! No one said it would be easy but I thought it would be! or could be!!
Thank you again you are such a great help and it is really appreciated.
Pat